More Stuff That Makes Me Wonder
Every now and then when I’m tied up on a conference call or some silly crap, I’ll cull internet news to keep myself from stabbing my eye with a pen to stay awake. I recently found this concept of “virtual cemeteries” on one such expedition. Just in case you have some extra time, interest, morbid curiosity, or all the above, the links are: I-tomb and I-memorial. They have slick splash pages and are apparently connected.
Off the top here, I have to ask if I’m the only person here mildly disturbed by this idea. This is jacked up on so many levels I’m losing count. I haven’t figured out how the monthly fee continues being paid after you kick it, and I probably don’t want to know. I assume, similar to our national debt, this is a turd you can lay on your kids’ lawn in your will. “Thanks, dad, for liquidating your house to keep paying for a site I can visit to remind me that you are in fact dead and apparently still being a dickhead.” My kids would love me for that. I could get one last good eye-roll and overly-dramatic “what-ever.”
You can also apparently leave Very Important Documents and other Important Messages for safekeeping until after you die, to be released to specified people after your very long dirt-nap begins. Seriously? So that would be almost like a will, except with no legal standing in court? Oh, and just as secure as our credit card and account information has been in the hands of banks, right? Yeah. I have to admit that I’m comforted by the notion of people being able to pass along terabytes of pirated games and porn to their kids and other relatives. That’s what Al Gore invented the internet for, right? Then again, if I amp up my blog production to two per day but only publish one for the next forty years or so, then I figure I’ve got forty posthumous years of BrainRanting after I die. Hmm…
As if this isn’t enough, these sites can apparently send notes to loved ones (their term) as a reminder of the dearly rotting. On one hand, that’s just f-ing creepy. Nothing quite like getting emails from the dead to keep me wallowing in the grief and loss. On the other hand, I guess I could set up automated taunts and insults to some of the Internet Trolls I hate most. That, my friends, would be awesome. “Hey, AB, I’m dead now, but you’re still wrong and still a retarded Troll, you irritating f***.”
I thought the drive through funeral home idea was bad for encouraging laziness (“Can I get fries with that?”), but this does truly tops it. Now we can not only spend our grandkids into financial slavery we can also encourage them to be lazy blobs after we’re all dead too. Somehow this imaginary phone IM texting conversation popped into my head:
- BROTHER: “OMG like dad died n ima sad” 😦
- SISTER: “Srsly?” 😦
- BROTHER: “Yea n theres a website n stuff” 🙂
- SISTER: “Cool LOL so we can just visit that cuz IDK what i’d b wearin to a funeral LOL an u can’t wear Hollister LOL“
- BROTHER: “LOL werd so do we unfriend him on fb now?”
- SISTER: “idk“
Give us a reply and shout out what you think about this stuff. I’m spent.
September 21, 2011 at 04:45
Haha! Loved the IM chat! 😛
September 21, 2011 at 15:01
Thanks!
September 21, 2011 at 05:00
Dayum! That is messed up.
September 21, 2011 at 15:01
It is, isn’t it?
September 21, 2011 at 08:11
What? You find the concept of virtual cemeteries, complete with ongoing emails from the dead, weird??
September 21, 2011 at 15:01
Ever so slightly.
September 21, 2011 at 09:40
WOW. I’m not sure if that’s cool, or creepy. Maybe there’s a one-time fee and you don’t have to pay for upkeep on the site after you kick the bucket. Creating your own memorial, complete with pictures and videos, prior to your death should definitely appeal to those who are narcissistic… or emo. I can see this being a real hit with high school kids. Official motto – “Every day’s a funeral!”
September 21, 2011 at 15:02
Yeah it is right up your average emo’s alley, I agree. Then there’s the rest of us.
September 21, 2011 at 11:46
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September 21, 2011 at 15:04
Uh oh. Does it come with a lifetime supply of bacon?
September 21, 2011 at 15:05
You have a wicked sense of humor. The twits tweeting at the end topped off the post to a T.
September 21, 2011 at 19:03
Thank you! I have to admit that living with teen daughters has enabled me to SMSSpeak… scary.
September 21, 2011 at 16:08
I gotta admit, some of that really rocks! Think of the ability to harass the kids after you’re gone. Especially if you can set a time delay. Imagine your son, lounging back in the La-Z-Boy, watching the 72″ TV he bought with the inheritance, and suddenly, your video pops onto the tube. “Hey, slacker, I may still be dead, but YOU still suck, and I’m in Heaven partying with Raquel Welch!” (Um… Farrah Fawcett? Pam Anderson? Who the heck IS sexy today?!?)
And the eternal bill could be cool, too. Now there’s THREE things you can’t avoid – death, taxes, and fees for the i-Tomb service! 😀
September 21, 2011 at 16:35
Jessica Alba. Jessica Alba. Jessica Alba.
September 21, 2011 at 18:17
No way! Jessica Biel! Catch her bikini scene in “Stealth” – not a bad movie, if you can forgive some mediocre acting.
Alba’s cute, but c’mon. I’ve got bigger boobs!
(Oh dear, there’s that nasty TMI line again.)
September 21, 2011 at 19:04
Oh I’m all for Raquel Welch. But she’s not dead yet. Admittedly, her and I in the afterlife is the ONLY possible scenario in which she and I would get… nevermind.
September 21, 2011 at 19:13
I just figured she’s a little further along in life than I am. Then again, given my myriad ailments, next week Tuesday might be iffy for me! 😀
September 22, 2011 at 07:52
Pics or they don’t exist, John. >)
Also…Biel vs. Alba.
I rest my case…:D
September 22, 2011 at 11:32
Sorry, Outcast, I’m a bit thick. Pics of what or they don’t exist?
Ya gotta understand something – I root for underdogs. When Alba is favoured, I go for Biel. When Everybody thought Ginger was hot, I always rooted for MaryAnn. Everybody loves Sally Knyvette on Blakes 7, I worship Jan Chappell. It’s personal taste, you can never be wrong! 😉
And if you get the Blakes 7 reference, you get bonus points for great taste! 😀
September 22, 2011 at 11:37
Pics of your bigger than Jessica Alba’s boobs, what else? ;D
September 22, 2011 at 11:51
Oh dude, I can’t do that! They’ll have me in front of the Hague for crimes against humanity! Not to mention invoking spontaneous mega-hurls in anyone who might catch that glimpse! Think of the children, man! 😀
(Technically, I’ve lost a cup size or two as I’ve shed over 30 pounds over the last 4 years. Less of a bad thing is DEFINITELY good!)
September 23, 2011 at 22:23
The mere mention/thought just killed half the people in my state. Thanks, John, you boob butcher!
September 21, 2011 at 16:36
MESSAGE FROM DAD:
Hello, kids. I am dead. I have been for ten years today. Just so you know, your mom is a serial killer, I was born in the West Indies to pygmies, and your wife, Billy, is really your sister. Have fun!
END MESSAGE
September 21, 2011 at 19:05
High level of awesome there. Excellent.
September 21, 2011 at 19:15
Maybe it’s my background in toying up cars, but somehow, your sister becoming your brother doesn’t seem as bad to me as your brother becoming your sister. Or maybe it’s just the thought of the “unkindest cut of all”.
September 22, 2011 at 07:50
Thanks, both of you old scoundrels. Do you know about your brother becoming your sister from experience, John? Hmmm?
September 22, 2011 at 11:28
Nope. My sister had a different operation. When she was about 19, she had surgery to change her from a woman to a hemorrhoid. A few years later she had another operation, a combination lobotomy and rectal expansion. (In other words, she became a big stupid A-hole.)
Sorry, I’ve been suffering from a real mother of a migraine. Makes me a bit nasty. I’ll be MUCH nicer to you guys, namely ’cause I like y’all! 😀
September 22, 2011 at 11:39
Well, we hate your smelly guts, so go away! haha I kid, I kid.
September 22, 2011 at 11:53
Now how did YOU know I was having fart attacks? Oh … you mean in general … I get it. Just be grateful they haven’t added “odor” to the Internet. 😉
September 23, 2011 at 10:11
They wanted to but Al Gore ran out of laundered campaign funds.
September 23, 2011 at 22:17
And Clinton ran out of interns so he was forced to pay attention to Gore being a douche…
September 21, 2011 at 22:42
Cool! I’m saving up all forwarded emails that contacts send me so I can send them all back from my account after I kick it.
No. I’m setting up a webcam in my grave so everyone can watch me deteriorate! Maybe I’ll hook it up to pandora and play creepy music. Omg, I’m so excited I can’t wait to be dead.
September 22, 2011 at 05:38
Send the link before you die so I can watch you rot.
September 22, 2011 at 13:59
haha! definitely.
September 22, 2011 at 02:56
“On the other hand, I guess I could set up automated taunts and insults to some of the Internet Trolls I hate most. That, my friends, would be awesome. “Hey, AB, I’m dead now, but you’re still wrong and still a retarded Troll, you irritating f***.”
Dude … this just cracked me up! I love it. 🙂
September 22, 2011 at 05:37
Glad I made you laugh. That would be a bit awesome, huh?
September 22, 2011 at 16:53
what the? (!_!) makes me….. wonder!
September 23, 2011 at 20:08
How did I miss this post? If I die soon I’m going to have a friend of mine send an email to my son about a month after I’m dead that says, “Hey Junior. I’m here with Jesus and he wants me to tell you to stop touching yourself.”
That ought to make up for all the parent/teacher meetings he put me through.
September 23, 2011 at 21:11
Oh, come on. Seriously. Men/boys will ALWAYS touch themselves. So i’ve been told at least. Think of it as an outlet for stress. And be ready to do a lot of laundry. Not that I’d know, but just sayin’.
September 23, 2011 at 22:14
Of course. You NEVER touched yourself. Is that fishy I smell?
September 23, 2011 at 22:34
I never said that. I was just being “PG” in an “X” world.
September 23, 2011 at 22:53
Admirable trait. But foolish. Be who you want to be. Be all you can be.
September 24, 2011 at 11:39
Hey, that’s less painful than being X-rated in a PG world. You know much it hurts to get pixelated? And those black bars – YOUCH!!
September 24, 2011 at 13:44
John, YOU have nothing to worry about! There’s barely anything to pixel out! ;D
September 24, 2011 at 14:02
That’s cause them black bars are COLD!!! Certainly you’ve seen the Seinfeld episode discussing “shrinkage”?
September 24, 2011 at 14:49
Seinfeld was so before my time, dude.
September 24, 2011 at 14:59
I have to agree with The Outcast. I was with you up until Seinfeld. Ouch.
September 24, 2011 at 15:47
*wince* Ouch indeed!
September 24, 2011 at 16:03
Well, H.E. Ellis, I’ll forgive you, being a lady. For the you punk guys in the crowd, think about what happens in your trunks when you go swimming in cold water. (And I don’t mean taking a leak or blowing bubbles! KIDS!) SHRINKAGE. Get it? Or do I have to draw you a picture? (You DON’T want to see that, trust me!)
September 24, 2011 at 22:13
My eyesight isn’t what it used to be, so make sure it’s a BIG picture. I’m sure you’ll have to draw it much bigger than in real life…if you get my drift hehe.
Punk and proud of it, bozo!
September 25, 2011 at 09:55
Hey, I resemble that remark – I grew up with Bozo on WGN, Chicago’s Own Channel 9! Him, Ray Rayner in the mornings, Garfield Goose in the afternoons ….. ah, such nostalgia.
Oh, and by the way, it’s “old fart”. Neither my feet nor my hair are big enough to qualify as “bozo”.
September 25, 2011 at 20:25
Your shoes and hats beg to differ.
September 26, 2011 at 12:54
Hey, the shoes are normal size (9.5). The head (no hair left), well, now that’s another story.
When I joined the British re-enacting group, the day they outfitted us a couple of the “old hands” were messing around with a helmet that was HUGE. They stuck it on their heads and spun it freely (the “tin hat” style that Brits wore in both world wars and our guys wore until 1941). I asked them to give it to me, because it would fit, and they laughed, right up until the “sergeant major” plopped it on my head and it fit like a glove! 😀
September 26, 2011 at 14:16
September 26, 2011 at 14:36
Um… what? (Nothing plays, I just get the first frame for 3 1/2 minutes….)
September 26, 2011 at 22:37
You really are an old bozo geezer. There is no video, it’s a song set to a still frame! The song is called YOU SUCK. It’s a wrestlers’ theme song. haha!
September 27, 2011 at 13:27
Well, first off my sound card doesn’t work (I’m trying to figure out why not), and second, I gave up on wrestling back in the Hulk Hogan/Randy Savage era. And while I’ll still argue the epithet of “bozo”, you got the “old geezer” part right on target!
September 27, 2011 at 13:46
We agree on something at last, ya old fart.
September 27, 2011 at 11:27
Amazing, and like you, I think it is creepy! Bleh.
September 27, 2011 at 11:49
Definitely.
September 30, 2011 at 11:52
That is just hilarious and creepy enough to work…”Dear Kids… Just because I’m dead doesn’t mean I can’t still tell you what to do. Now, go, clean your room.” 🙂
September 30, 2011 at 14:47
Absolutely… and then add: “And now I really CAN see what you’re doing.”